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A Christmas Remembered - The Break In

Sat Dec 5, 2009 10:52 PM EST
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By USAF Vet-923294

Photo by Rosana Prada. (License: Creative Commons Attribution)

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After retiring from the USAF, I worked for a few years and then returned to college. I wasn't an ordinary student. Most students belonged to organizations such as Sigma Delta Pi, I belonged to the PTA.

The year had been a tough one. My sister had lost her home in the May 3rd, 1999 tornado that devastated Oklahoma City, my father was diagnosed as having liver cancer and I was carrying a full college load while working. December rolled around and when finals week reared its ugly head, I was notified that my Father only had days.

I had already finished some of my finals, but in two classes I had to take "i's" (incomplete) to go to my father who was 200 miles away. I loaded the family up and left.

Our Christmas tree was up, but we took the few gifts we had and put them in the car. Christmas was less then a week away, but Dad's funeral was the day before Christmas Eve. I was devastated, but tried to be strong for my siblings, my mother and my children. Even my wife was extremely upset at my Father's passing. He had been a good man to all of us.

I spent the days bringing things together and making arrangements for the funeral. Many of the items had been done by my Uncles, but I did many others myself. I found a Military Color Guard and managed to get them to come and honor my Father who had served for 21 years in the USAF. My wife and I bought a family wreath and we helped to pick out a head stone. I wrote a eulogy and gave it before the funeral to my father's church.

Preparing for a funeral is not what most do during this time year. Yet, Christmas shopping seemed to be minor for us. We did sneak away for a short time and purchased our children a Nintendo game system. We all knew Christmas would be sparse that year.

After the funeral, we stayed with my mother and helped her around the house taking care of things that Dad had not managed to finish. We spent Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with her so that she would not be alone. My younger sister and her Family, my brother and my older Sister and her family all stayed through Christmas. Then we went home late Christmas Day.

Driving home in the dark I was very somber. My Children had not had a very good Christmas. We had spent much of our Christmas money on the trip and the funeral. They had lost their only living grandfather and I had lost my father. It was a four hour trip of deep sorrow and regret.

Finally, we arrived home and as I parked the car, I noticed the front door was wide open. I asked my wife if she had any idea why it would be open and she didn't. I got out and slowly walked to the door. I looked in and all the lights were off. I opened the storm door and called for the dogs. They all came running.

The fact the dogs were alright and knowing that Austin would have attacked anyone he did not know within the house (which had done before) lead me to believe it was alright to enter. I walked in and keeping Austin by my side, I walked through the house. I checked the bedrooms first, then the kitchen and finally the living room.

When I hit the switch for the living room the Christmas tree lights came on and I was stunned.

Sitting under and around the tree was numerous gifts all wrapped up. I was amazed. We had taken all of the gifts we had with us.

I walked over to them and checked the tags. They were all address in typewritten tags that had my children's names on them. A few were to my wife and a few were to me.

Need less to say, I was stunned. I stood up and walked outside to my family and told them it was all clear. Then, I told them they all needed to go to the living room.

When we walked in, I noticed a white envelope that I had missed earlier. Opening it, it read:

Years ago, I heard that you had played Santa to a child in your town whose parents were going through a hard time. You bought them toys and left them Christmas Night on her family's porch.

You signed the letter Santa and never told anyone.

Having heard of the problems you had this Christmas, I needed to do this. Sorry, I broke in.

Love,

Santa

I remembered having done what the letter accused me of. It was several years earlier before I was married. Yet, I had not told anyone except for a friend who had died the following year.

To this day I have no idea who broke in and left all the gifts. I have no idea who knew about my gift giving that Christmas Night so long ago or why they felt I should be repaid. The gifts helped my children to have a better Christmas and is a gift of love that I will never forget.

Perhaps there is a Santa Clause. Perhaps he lives in each of us.

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USAF Vet-923294

That was Christmas I will never forget.

  • 10 votes
Reply#1 - Sat Dec 5, 2009 10:57 PM EST
MoCowgirl-1193719

I firmly believe all we do -either good or bad- comes back to us.

Kudos to you USAF Vet for being one of the good guys who was there for someone when they needed it....and kudos to that "unknown" person who could do the same for you and yours.

Thanks for sharing ....and caring....

  • 7 votes
#1.1 - Sat Dec 5, 2009 11:44 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thank you MoCowgirl. Sometimes Karma isn't bitch. ;0 )

  • 6 votes
#1.2 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 12:16 AM EST
Karl_

USAF Vet-923294,

This is one of the most touching stories I have read in years.

Thank you, and forever, Merry Christmas to you and yours.

  • 6 votes
#1.3 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 6:46 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thank you Karl. It get choked up when I think about myself.

  • 6 votes
#1.4 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:43 AM EST
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G. H.

A wonderful story Ben! Thanks for sharing. One year when I was having lots of problems near Christmas, I heard noises in my backyard, but I was too scared to go look. I raised my four kids alone for nearly 18 years, so there was no one to go look for me. Anyway, the next morning I looked out (Christmas Eve Day), and there were dozens of gifts, wrapped and tagged for each person in my family, plus about a month's worth of groceries!! I just sat down in the snow and cried! I've never found out who helped me, either, so by default............IT WAS SANTA CLAUS!! LOL Whenever I can, then, I try to give anonymously to others. That was a great incentive.

I'm glad things are better now, for both of us. MERRY CHRISTMAS My Friend! ♥

  • 7 votes
Reply#2 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 2:13 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Merry Christams to you too, G.H.! I remember breaking down and tearing up too. People who make a difference in our lives without being known are a great gift and if I knew who it was, I woudl think them over and over.

  • 7 votes
#2.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 2:34 AM EST
Karl_

if I knew who it was, I woudl think them over and over.

Yet perhaps it is better this way. May this story inspire others. It is a pattern worth repeating. May your story inspire some Santas-at-heart out there.

Peace.

  • 7 votes
#2.2 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 6:51 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

It would be good if it could inspire others. Thanks Karl.

  • 7 votes
#2.3 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:45 AM EST
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rottlady

What a heartwarming story Ben, I know it must have been a really rough time for you but who ever did that for you was a angel indeed!

Thanks for sharing this with us.

  • 6 votes
Reply#3 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:29 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

It was tough. Yet, the gift that this "Santa" gave us was extremely special and something I will always remember.

  • 7 votes
#3.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:50 AM EST
neenie1991

Wonderful story. Got me all teared up. Karma is not a bitch, it comes back to you in the form that you give and receive. (So I guess it could be a bitch.) Thank you for the story, I needed it!

  • 6 votes
#3.2 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:57 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thank you for stopping by Neenie. It chokes me up when I think about it.

  • 5 votes
#3.3 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 12:29 PM EST
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jbdaad

Now ya gone and gots me all wishy washy.

So I remembered, Happy Holidays Ben.

  • 6 votes
Reply#4 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 12:15 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

I took me awhile to get the story out, because it does the same to me. Thanks for stopping by JB. Hoep you have a great holiday Season!

  • 6 votes
#4.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 12:30 PM EST
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bigbugy

Thank you for the article and sharing a part of your life with us.

I was in a terrible situation some years back where I was layed off,my wifes hours were cut,and with two weeks before Christmas my daughter had to have a double lung transplant in Pittsburg.Christmas was essentially out of the question for us as finances would not allow much in the way of gift giving.

On Christmas morning I took the last four dollars we had and was going to go to buy milk and eggs.I opened the door to find four large boxes with so many gifts for my three children and at least two weeks worth of groceries.I cried for a moment went back and and told my family to come and see.They cried.

To this day we have no idea who was so kind to us,but every year we pick a family and do the same thing for them without ever letting them know who did it.Thats almost as much fun as buying them gifts and food.

It certainly has a way of restoring my faith in mankind with all the terrible things we see and hear everyday.

  • 8 votes
Reply#5 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 6:32 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

I got choked up hearing your story. It is a redeeming value when we help others. May God bless you and I hope you have a great Holiday Season.

  • 7 votes
#5.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 7:22 PM EST
bigbugy

And to you and your as well.

  • 6 votes
#5.2 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 10:15 PM EST
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Soovivers

Great memory Ben. A well deserved gift from a friend or perhaps it was Santa and the elves? I'm sure it makes it better not knowing who it was but someone cared enough to help you out in your time of need.

All I can say is it couldn't have happened to a better family.

  • 6 votes
Reply#6 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 7:30 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thanks Soo. It was a rough year and when we saw that the house had been broke into, I felt as if the worst had come to a head. I never expected to find gifts, but it was very welcome to find them.

I have spent much time wondering who it could have been, but always come up short.

  • 6 votes
#6.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 8:03 PM EST
Soovivers

Ben In the early 70s we were broke too. It was around Christmas and we had no money. For some reason that year I wanted to buy my mother a Bible (she was very religious).

One day before Christmas an envelope with a Christmas card and 20.00 came in the mail. I bought her the Bible. I have often wondered who gave us the money too. But I have no idea - so I kind of know what you are feeling.

  • 4 votes
#6.2 - Mon Dec 7, 2009 8:50 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

My mother is very religious too. :0 )

Some how the kindness mixed with that unknown can be a real blessing.

  • 3 votes
#6.3 - Mon Dec 7, 2009 11:07 AM EST
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Dowser

Well, I'm in tears. What a sweet story!

I'm so very sorry to read of the loss of your father, and I know that was one horrible Christmas. We've had awful holidays, as well, when someone we loved was either dying or we were making funeral arrangements. It is a really hard time to live through-- especially at Christmas.

Then, someone came to your home and gave you a priceless gift. The gift of love. We never know what effect it will have to pass goodness and love on to others. But someone remembered your selfless giving, and did their best to help you through a rough spot.

I truly believe in doing what we can, when the need presents itself. You just have to follow your heart and do what you can to help others. It will come back to us some day, if only in that the doing of the deed is its own reward. You didn't remotely consider that helping someone else would, in turn, help you. But it always does somehow.

Beautiful story for a lovely man, Ben. May God bless you always.

  • 5 votes
Reply#7 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 7:55 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thanks Dowser. I had done the gift giving almost 16 years earlier and had all but forgot about it. The only one I could remember telling was a friend that had died almost a year after I had done that. I think that is where the perplexing part came in for me.

The letter was the only clue that someone else knew I had given gifts to a needy family. I never thought it would be returned someday, but it was.

I will always cherish what some unknown person did for my children that year.

  • 6 votes
#7.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 8:10 PM EST
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Deka Dee Me

What a heart breaking story with a happy ending. Good deeds do not go unrecognized. 16 years later, you were recognized for your good deed.

There are angels amoungst us. 'smiles'

  • 6 votes
Reply#8 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 9:06 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Yes, there are. Thanks for coming by Deka.

  • 6 votes
#8.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 9:34 PM EST
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Perrie

Sweet Ben,

What a sad but beautiful story. You are one of those people that proves to me that good people still exist and that, that goodness is paid forward.

May your never have such a sad Christmas again. May you always remember the good things about your dad on Christmas, and not the sad moment you lost him. If your anything like him, he would have wanted you, too. And may you always be blessed with small miracles in life. Your a small one yourself to those around you.

Merry Christmas

Perrie

  • 6 votes
Reply#9 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:14 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thanks Perrie. I do miss my Dad, but not as bad as at it was at first. I guess in many ways I am like him. I just hope it is the good parts. ;0 )

Hope you have a wonderful Christmas!!

  • 5 votes
#9.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 11:21 PM EST
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Ben---

Beautiful.

Merry Christmas, paisan. You deserve it.

  • 5 votes
Reply#12 - Mon Dec 7, 2009 7:05 PM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thanks Bud. I hope you have a great Christmas.

  • 5 votes
#12.1 - Mon Dec 7, 2009 7:41 PM EST
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It's Gretchen!

that was beautiful

the christmas eve just after I turned seventeen, my grandmother died in her sleep while visiting up. It is so bizarre to have the tragic juxtaposed with celebration and it still jars me every year.

im glad your kids got to have a great christmas

  • 3 votes
Reply#13 - Tue Dec 8, 2009 10:13 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thank you. I find that I still have problems getting into the Christmas spirit, but it gets a little easier with time.

My children, all grown now, had a better Christmas due to someone's kindness and I will never forget what they did for us.

I hope you have a wonderful Christmas.

  • 3 votes
#13.1 - Tue Dec 8, 2009 12:23 PM EST
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Sydney - 5

What a beautiful and touching story. Many thanks for sharing it.

It's struck me many times that we get back what we give out. And you got back the goodness you'd once given out, and at the exact moment you and your family most needed it. The universe is truly amazing.

  • 4 votes
Reply#14 - Wed Dec 9, 2009 12:21 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

That Christmas was one that I will also remember. It helped us and drove home what we had always told our children - What you sow, you will reap.

  • 4 votes
#14.1 - Wed Dec 9, 2009 12:25 AM EST
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Proud American-252641

USAF, I don't know how I missed this article at Christmas, but I am glad I found it now. What a wonderful story, we never know how things we do will come back a round for us, whether good or bad. Your act of love was repaid in kind for you and your family!

I lost my dad to cancer 3 years ago a couple of weeks before Christmas and can relate to much of what you wrote about the pall of that year. It is a shadow of saddness that has become part of our Christmas since because of the empty place it has left in our celebrations, yet at the same time he will forver be a part of them.

Thanks for sharing your memories.

  • 3 votes
Reply#15 - Mon Jan 4, 2010 11:20 AM EST
USAF Vet-923294

Thank you. Sorry to hear about your Dad. I still have a bit of a problem getting into Christmas since that Christmas, even though it was 10 years ago. Yet, we do try to make it a good time of year for the kids.

  • 2 votes
#15.1 - Mon Jan 4, 2010 1:22 PM EST
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